Why should you name your child with both Dad's and Mom's surnames?

Naming children with both parents' surnames, although not common, is gradually becoming more popular in modern society. There are many reasons for this trend:

1. Gender equality and recognition of the role of mothers:

• The tradition of giving father's surnames to children has existed for a long time, reflecting patriarchal society. However, today, the concept of gender equality is increasingly promoted, and the role of mothers in raising and forming children's personalities is more clearly recognized.
• Naming a child with both parents' surnames is a way to show respect and recognize the merits of both parents in giving birth and raising children.

2. Show love and family bonding:

• The name is an important part of each person's identity. Naming a child with both parents' surnames shows the cohesion and harmony between the two sides of the family, as well as a symbol of the love that parents have for their children.
• This can create a positive family environment where children feel love and care from both inside and outside.

3. Create your own mark and meaning for the name:

• Dual surnames can create a unique, distinct name that makes your child stand out and easier to remember.
• Parents can creatively combine the two surnames to create a name with a special meaning, expressing their desires and expectations for their children.

4. Respect for parents' right to self-determination:

• Vietnamese law allows parents to freely agree on their children's surnames. Naming a child with both parents' surnames is a personal choice, demonstrating the parental autonomy in naming their child.

However, it is also worth noting:

• Naming children with both parents' surnames can cause some difficulties in managing their children's records and papers in the future.
• Some people think that dual surnames can cause confusion about the origin and lineage of children.

In conclusion, naming a child with both parents' surnames is a personal choice, depending on the perspective, wishes, and circumstances of each family. There is no right or wrong in this matter, it is important for parents to consider carefully before making a decision.

If you are considering naming your child with both parents' surnames, discuss carefully with your partner and family to come to the most appropriate decision.